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JCKevin - PLEASE don't remove this

Posted: 12/18/2012 2:25 PM

JCKevin - PLEASE don't remove this 


It’s a big world out there….and most members of this site have no problem with being on two or more sites.

Yes I am an administrator on that other (unmentionable) site, as well as a member on other sites. Each site has its own philosophy in what it is all about. While I may or may not like every point point in a sites philosophy, my personal philosophy is……

“SOMETIMES YOU FILL LIKE A NUT…..

AND SOMETIMES YOU DON’T”

 

Unfortunately, this site does not have a way to post personal videos, which I, as a video producer, enjoy. (on the nut side)

I have always enjoyed this site for its depth of information and insight about JC Football.  And where BC history comes into play, I like to post what information I can.  And sometimes I’ve been shown to be mistaken, and am grateful to be corrected.  (At my age) my memory is sometimes more wishful thinking than real history.

However, this site is the only one where a few members blackball others because of an owner of a site, and/or participation with that site, or perhaps, it is my sarcastic (?) but NEVER ugly or hurtful humor that has brought such humorless and mean spirited postings. I believe it’s the first reason, because there are many on this site with humor like mine.

AND yes, I believe, humor and JC Football can coexist, even on this site.

I am not angry or upset…..just puzzled.  Although I shouldn’t be, just like in life, one must live with ALL kinds of personalities, even on websites.


One last thing…..Fee or no Fee, I am thankful for this website – and I seek NO refund, as it has been and is worth it.


With that said – If JCKevin asks me to leave, I will, I don’t need to be banned.



BCfan1955  

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Posted: 12/18/2012 6:10 PM

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Funny thing is that I am a huge supporter of this site and even bash the other site; but yet JCKevin even deleted my last post flushed.......not even sure whynoidea
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Posted: 12/18/2012 7:16 PM

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I love you, man, and I certainly don't want to upset anyone, especially a senior citizen (nudge, nudge, wink, wink). I guess sometimes you feel like a nut and sometimes other people feel like you're a nut. It's all good in this mamby pamby, hurly girly, creepy crawly world of Internet message boards. I gotta say, though, that sometimes you get what you got coming.

I guess whether you've NEVER posted ugly or hurtful humor is a matter of your point of view. Actually, whether it is even humor is a matter of who is the butt of the joke. I'll refrain from re-posting this hilarity (insert eye roll), as I refuse to further acknowledge the existence of that aberration of a "JC football website". Lets just leave it that the schoolyard bullying which used to exist here has simply moved to the low rent part of town and the vast majority of us like it that way. It was obviously unwelcome, as evidenced by Kevin's decision to take this site pay-per-view. I am very hopeful that the very moment it returns, he will handle it by placing a fee of $10/month on subscribers, an amount obviously way outside of the budget of those who have since left us with a site of general peace and dignity.


In short, there is a conflict. Some insisted on behavior that the owner of this website finally had to deem unacceptable. They left. Their gone. We pray they don't return. When you follow them and participate in these ongoing attacks, you just can't come here and pretend that you didn't or that you don't. It's a two-way street and you might just be standing in the middle of it. I am not judging here, but simply offering food for thought.

I apologize if this is upsetting to you or anyone else, but I really feel you've been guilty on more than one occasion of playing both sides, and might suggest that it is time to make a choice.

With love, your pal -

Junglejim
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--- bcfan1955 wrote:

It’s a big world out there….and most members of this site have no problem with being on two or more sites.



Yes I am an administrator on that other (unmentionable) site, as well as a member on other sites. Each site has its own philosophy in what it is all about. While I may or may not like every point point in a sites philosophy, my personal philosophy is……

“SOMETIMES YOU FILL LIKE A NUT…..

AND SOMETIMES YOU DON’T”

 

Unfortunately, this site does not have a way to post personal videos, which I, as a video producer, enjoy. (on the nut side)

I have always enjoyed this site for its depth of information and insight about JC Football.  And where BC history comes into play, I like to post what information I can.  And sometimes I’ve been shown to be mistaken, and am grateful to be corrected.  (At my age) my memory is sometimes more wishful thinking than real history.



However, this site is the only one where a few members blackball others because of an owner of a site, and/or participation with that site, or perhaps, it is my sarcastic (?) but NEVER ugly or hurtful humor that has brought such humorless and mean spirited postings. I believe it’s the first reason, because there are many on this site with humor like mine.

AND yes, I believe, humor and JC Football can coexist, even on this site.



I am not angry or upset…..just puzzled.  Although I shouldn’t be, just like in life, one must live with ALL kinds of personalities, even on websites.


One last thing…..Fee or no Fee, I am thankful for this website – and I seek NO refund, as it has been and is worth it.


With that said – If JCKevin asks me to leave, I will, I don’t need to be banned.



BCfan1955  



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Posted: 12/18/2012 7:34 PM

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Thank you JJ,
I guess we have a few things that we just have to agree to disagree on noidea
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Posted: 12/18/2012 8:12 PM

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If you insist, I could maybe find the time to do the research and display the referenced posts. As I said, that is not in my liking. I don't think that whether you've made unseemly posts is really a matter of opinion. Most, I trust, would think so. I'm not mad. I just want to get the facts straight. I understand getting carried away. I also understand contrition. I do not, however, understand misrepresentation of the facts and attempting to place the blame elsewhere.

I've offered my advice and prefer to leave it at that. I suggest we let bygones be bygones and move forward in the spirit of truth and dignity and the desire to have a website where we can discuss JC football without further threat of personal attacks, whether here or on other sites.

Peace and love,

Junglejim

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Thank you JJ,
I guess we have a few things that we just have to agree to disagree on noidea

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Posted: 12/18/2012 9:54 PM

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ok... thanks everyone for saying what you have to say

now let's keep it about football and I won't have to keep deleting stuff.

when i delete stuff it's usually the whole thread because it's too time consuming to delete each post or responses to posts

if we could all get in a room and discuss the site, my philosophy, my goals for the site, past history (12+ years)...etc. then you'd all understand everything ... why I do things the way I do, yada yada


but alas...none of y'all live in seattle
Kevin Lustgarten
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Posted: 12/19/2012 7:58 AM

Re: JCKevin - I love BC fan, please dont send him to woodshed! 





Football recruiting season is upon us......
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Posted: 12/19/2012 8:12 AM

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I'm sure that there is a way to conference everyone in via Skype or some other form of technology, if anyone actually cares. Otherwise, the ability to express opinions without the need to expose one's identity may keep some from participating. Frankly, it's your site and you should do whatever makes your life easier. We'd hate to see this forum become the circus of a year ago.

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ok... thanks everyone for saying what you have to say

now let's keep it about football and I won't have to keep deleting stuff.

when i delete stuff it's usually the whole thread because it's too time consuming to delete each post or responses to posts

if we could all get in a room and discuss the site, my philosophy, my goals for the site, past history (12+ years)...etc. then you'd all understand everything ... why I do things the way I do, yada yada


but alas...none of y'all live in seattle

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Posted: 12/19/2012 9:36 AM

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This is am example of posters that post trash................
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