fldore wrote: "Before another student or athlete picks Ole Miss"
who cares... if there is immediate playing time and you like the coach then go to Ole Miss. Dont let 40 knuckleheads scare you off.
Actually, I feel sorry for the losers. This will help them better cope.
There 5 stages of grief. Learn what to expect after a loss.
1) DENIAL - "there is NO WAY it turned out this way"
2) ANGER - "white southern xtians are the most discriminated group in the history of America are we're not going to take it sitting down any more!"
3) BARGAINING - "Florida hasn't finished counting yet - don't concede!! Don't do it!!"
4) DEPRESSION - overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5)
Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. You have to accept the loss, not just try to bear it quietly. Get help. You will survive. You will heal, even if you cannot believe that now, just know that it is true. To feel pain after loss is normal.

I hope this helps!
