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Posted: 2/18/2013 4:29 PM
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So happy for Coach Spencer. He is a great man and he deserves to be happy.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 4:36 PM
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I guess I don't have a chance now.  I guess Mr. sandyd and I will just have to start on the next 25 years together. He is a very nice man. I wish him much happiness. |
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Posted: 2/18/2013 4:42 PM
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Good for him, he certainly deserves to be happy ..
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Posted: 2/18/2013 6:00 PM
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After looking through the links he better have a word with Dabo.
Just kidding -best of luck
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Posted: 2/18/2013 6:16 PM
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She is a Jersey girl and a horse enthusiast. Coach Spencer plus Bullet is a match made in heaven.
“Every morning you have to get up and catch the mule. Every day is not going to go your way. Every situation is not going to go your way. That doesn’t mean you stop working.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 6:35 PM
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Congratulations.............nice to hear of the match.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 6:39 PM
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Good for him.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 7:13 PM
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Keeper + Keeper make a great pair.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 7:15 PM
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Happy for them
Never let anyone or anything come between you and your goals in life!
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Posted: 2/18/2013 8:26 PM
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I'm happy for them... but is no one else scratching their heads just a little bit?
Am I the only one thinking that 18 months after your spouse passes away is WAY to early to get engaged?
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Posted: 2/18/2013 8:33 PM
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pokefan4life wrote: I'm happy for them... but is no one else scratching their heads just a little bit?
Am I the only one thinking that 18 months after your spouse passes away is WAY to early to get engaged? Have you ever lost a spouse after a long illness? If not, then you should keep your comments to yourself. Until you have walked in another man's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. I cannot believe someone would post this.  |
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Posted: 2/18/2013 8:40 PM
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Wish them and the two boys the best in the future.   
Post pot ergo propter pot not.
Last edited 2/18/2013 8:42 PM by RovertoSolo
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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:16 PM
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Good for him.
Saw them together last August at IHOP in Downtown OKC.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:47 PM
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Just to make sure I understand your point, you want someone to keep their opinion to themselves on an open message board? Isn't expressing one's opinion the purpose of a message board? All I said was that I was happy for them but am a little confused with the speed of the relationship. If that makes you want to "bang your head against a wall" then that's your problem. --------------------------------------------- --- Poke85 wrote: pokefan4life wrote: I'm happy for them... but is no one else scratching their heads just a little bit?
Am I the only one thinking that 18 months after your spouse passes away is WAY to early to get engaged? Have you ever lost a spouse after a long illness? If not, then you should keep your comments to yourself. Until you have walked in another man's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. I cannot believe someone would post this. --------------------------------------------- |
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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:53 PM
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Poke85 wrote:
pokefan4life wrote: I'm happy for them... but is no one else scratching their heads just a little bit?
Am I the only one thinking that 18 months after your spouse passes away is WAY to early to get engaged? Have you ever lost a spouse after a long illness? If not, then you should keep your comments to yourself. Until you have walked in another man's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. I cannot believe someone would post this. As someone who deals with people during their last days, I can tell you that often spouses in this situation will give their blessing for the surviving spouse to move on. There is no timetable as all people grieve at different rates. |
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Posted: 2/18/2013 10:02 PM
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I understand that. I also understand that 2nd marriages have about a 67% failure rate. One of the main reasons for this high failure rate is "rebounding". I hope this marriage works for them... but I am concerned about the speed if this. --------------------------------------------- --- trahernsfriend wrote: Poke85 wrote:
pokefan4life wrote: I'm happy for them... but is no one else scratching their heads just a little bit?
Am I the only one thinking that 18 months after your spouse passes away is WAY to early to get engaged? Have you ever lost a spouse after a long illness? If not, then you should keep your comments to yourself. Until you have walked in another man's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. I cannot believe someone would post this. As someone who deals with people during their last days, I can tell you that often spouses in this situation will give their blessing for the surviving spouse to move on. There is no timetable as all people grieve at different rates. --------------------------------------------- |
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Posted: 2/18/2013 10:06 PM
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I totally understand your thoughts. If this were a situation where Coach Spencer was coming out of a divorce I would be more concerned. Most 2nd marriages after the death of a spouse that I have known of work out well. Actually I cant think of one that didnt. Im sure there are situations.
Ive even known of a couple of dying spouses picking out their own replacements! Talk about awkward.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 10:07 PM
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Pokefan, you haven't the slightest clue what you're talking about. It's certainly not too soon. Glen Spencer deserves all the happiness that life gives him after such a devastating loss. He's one of the best people around. Good for him.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 10:08 PM
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When you find yourself in a deep hole, stop digging. pokefan4life wrote: I understand that. I also understand that 2nd marriages have about a 67% failure rate. One of the main reasons for this high failure rate is "rebounding". I hope this marriage works for them... but I am concerned about the speed if this.
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Poke85 wrote:
pokefan4life wrote: I'm happy for them... but is no one else scratching their heads just a little bit?
Am I the only one thinking that 18 months after your spouse passes away is WAY to early to get engaged? Have you ever lost a spouse after a long illness? If not, then you should keep your comments to yourself. Until you have walked in another man's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. I cannot believe someone would post this. As someone who deals with people during their last days, I can tell you that often spouses in this situation will give their blessing for the surviving spouse to move on. There is no timetable as all people grieve at different rates.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 10:09 PM
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Maybe the only two words to be said in regard to this engagement should be 'congratulations' for most of us and 'interesting' for some of us.
Post pot ergo propter pot not.
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